"No one enters marriage thinking they will be divorced. Thank goodness for this book for those of us who face that heart-wrenching but necessary decision. Dr. Toyin masterfully weaves practical advice and tips with heartfelt messages that only someone who has navigated divorce can understand. I plan to re-read some of the chapters as I continue on my healing journey."

"If you are going through a divorce, or know someone who is, please buy and read this book [...] Such creative, vivid and clever writing. Having gone through a divorce myself, I could relate to all that she wrote, but I certainly still picked up a lot of life lessons and found myself having a lot of ha-ha moments. Thank you so much, Toyin for writing such a much needed book to empower women during one of the most stressful life events."

"My only complaint is that I wish it had been published sooner! The author does a wonderful job reframing some of the hardest parts about divorce and turning them into strengths. The text is genuine and easy to read, which allows you to trust the tips and easily reference them. The author uses examples from her career in medicine which is both helpful and keeps the book interesting. I particularly appreciated chapters 4 and 5 about understanding other's reactions to your divorce, staying true to yourself, and personal growth. I have recommended this book to both friends who have experienced divorce and friends who are in the process and terrified of being a single mother."

"It takes bravery, passion and insight to write this book. It is a well written book filled with helpful and insightful tips. You go on a ride with her on her journey and discover yourself in some ways. I am not married or divorced however I related to her passion for her children and her strength to get herself up and focus on what is and was important #childrenfirst. the book demonstrates how much power we have inside once we focus on important things and trust our support group and our own faith. #sisterhood #persistence #awareness #recognition #empowerement. A must read for all women!"

So what’s a man doing reading about divorce from a woman’s perspective? Well, because divorce is rarely one-sided and we need to understand how both sides look at things. Also, I’ve been divorced and having some perspective on the matter wanted to see what the other side thought. The author, who was fortunate enough to marry the person she started dating in her teenage years (or thereabouts) lays out how divorce can happen to anyone and how it’s not something to be ashamed or defensive about. As a matter of fact when things are no longer as we would like them to be it’s usually the people who are brave enough to face reality that are able to pull the plug and start the divorce process. Coming from a background where she knew no divorced people it was that much harder to understand and communicate to others but she persevered and so can you. [...] here is a real opportunity to find happiness and peace by backing away from the marriage in as decent and respectful a manner as you and your spouse can. Life goes on. The author proves it. If you’re going through a divorce learn from this book. You will be fine."